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Recommendations from TxCARE Members &
Friends
Adoption Nation: How the Adoption Revolution Is
Transforming America
Hardcover, 288 Pages, Basic Books, November 2000
ISBN: 0465056504
Author: Pertman, Adam
Reviews: "Outstanding! This exciting,
innovative book is a must read for adoptive parents, for
everyone considering adopting, and for the millions of
Americans-including professionals-who touch the lives of
adoptive families. Adoption Nation is a remarkable book that I
would like to put in the hands of everyone in the nation." Jane
Nast, President, American Adoption Congress
"After 27 years as a social worker involved in child
placement I can firmly say that Adoption Nation is a book whose
time has come, finally! This past year has seen major advances
toward a more dignified adoption practice in the US. The rights
of adult adoptees being slowly but increasingly written into law
and acknowledged in the media. Adoption Nation helps to explain
this process. It documents very well the painful history of
adoption practice in the US. It is well written and for me was
very exciting reading. This story had to be told! This book is
must reading for anyone involved in the adoption process, birth
parents, adoptive parents, and the adoptees they love. Anyone
with adoption triad members involved in their lives should read
this book. It will help them understand the basic human issues
of adoption that this book addresses in very tasteful stories
throughout. This book should be REQUIRED reading for social
workers and anyone else who is planning to work in child
placement. It should be read BEFORE any damage is done with a
poorly planned adoption. Finally, this book must be read by our
legislators. If they read and understand it then all the
adoption laws in the US will be changed within the year to
return the fundamental right to a birth hertiage to all adult
adoptees, a right which was removed slowly, state by state, over
the past 50 years. With this book the reversal of that process
will continue to gather speed! Thank you Adam Pertman! I hope to
meet you someday and thank you in person." Bill Betzen,
TxCARE Board Member
Lost & Found: The Adoption Experience
Trade Paperback, 320 Pages, Child Welfare League of America,
Incorporated, January 1988
ISBN: 0060971320
Author: Lifton, Betty J.
Review: "Good on experience of being
adopted." Anonymous
"The adoption experience from an adoptees viewpoint. An
adoption classic." Anonymous
The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child
Trade Paperback, 252 Pages, Verrier Publishing, April 1993
ISBN: 0963648004
Author: Verrier, Nancy N.
Reviews: "Eye opening revelations of how a
separation at birth impacts adoptees lifelong." Anonymous
"Great insight into the psychological trauma that we as
adoptees can face from birth, relinquishment, and throughout our
lives." Karen J., TxCARE Member
The Other Mother: A Woman's Love for the Child She Gave
up for Adoption
Trade Paperback, 296 Pages, Soho Press, Incorporated, September
1992
ISBN: 0939149753
Author: Schaefer, Carol
Review: "Good example of 60's society
attitudes towards birth mothers and adoption." Anonymous
"A must read!" Gwinetta C., TxCARE Member
Adoption Reunions: A Book for Adoptees, Birthparents
& Adoptive Families
Trade Paperback, 175 Pages, Second Story Press, April 1993
ISBN: 0929005414
Author: McColm, Michelle
(Note: This title usually ships in 1-6 weeks, but must be
ordered from the publisher. From time to time, publishers run
out of stock or declare titles out of print without notice.)
Review: "Written by an adoptee, to address the many
issues of reunions. This book strives to provide insight and
assistance to adoptees, adoptive parents, birth parents and the
professionals who work with them. Practical suggestions for
coping with each stage of reunion are included." Zoe F.,
TxCARE Member
Sacred Connections: Stories of Adoption
Hardcover, 128 Pages, Running Press Book Publishers, February
2001
ISBN: 0762408014
Author: Koenig, Mary Ann, Berg, Niki (Photographer)
Review: "Truly helps the reader/viewer
realize the sacredness of the connections we all have." Anonymous
Family Matters: Secrecy & Disclosure in the History
of Adoption
Hardcover, 288 Pages, Harvard University Press, April 1998
ISBN: 0674796683
Author: Carp, E. Wayne
Review: "The history behind secrecy and
nondisclosure in adoption." Karen J., TxCARE Member
Birth Bond: Reunions Between Birthparents &
Adoptees, What Happens After. . .
Trade Paperback, 285 Pages, New Horizon Press Publishers,
Incorporated, April 1991
ISBN: 0882820729
Author: Gediman, Judith S. / Brown, Linda P.; Editor:
Dunphy, Joan S.
Review: "Explores the long term outcomes of
reunions." - Anonymous
"Interviews with 30 birthmothers who were engaged in
post-reunion situations, interviews with professionals in
adoption with reunion expertise." Zoe F., TxCARE Member
Birthright: The Guide to Search & Reunion for
Adoptees, Birthparents, & Adoptive Parents
Trade Paperback, 288 Pages, Viking Penguin, June 1994
ISBN: 0140512950
Author: Strauss, Jean A.
Review: "A useful book for adoptees and
their loved ones who are coming to terms with the emotions of
search. Focuses on many issues of search and reunion. Seventy
contributors." Zoe F., TxCARE Member
The Adoption Triangle: Sealed or Opened Records: How
They Affect Adoptees, Birthparents & Adoptive Parents
Trade Paperback, 236 Pages, Edition Number 02, Corona Publishing
Company, December 1989
ISBN: 0931722594
Author: Baran, Annette / Sorosky, Arthur D. / Pannor,
Reuben
Review: "A great book!" Gwinetta C.,
TxCARE Member
"Learn about all sides of the adoption triangle. Based on
1,000 interviews." Anonymous
Search: A Handbook for Adoptees & Birthparents
Trade Paperback, 352 Pages, Edition Number 03, Oryx Press, July
1998
ISBN: 1573561150
Author: Askin, Jayne
Review: "Updated classic adoption search
book." Anonymous
The Journey of the Adopted Self: A Quest for Wholeness
Trade Paperback, 336 Pages, Basic Books, May 1995
ISBN: 0465036759
Author: Lifton, Betty J.
Review: "Addresses the myths, the fantasies
and the skewed perceptions society & many adoptive parents
have about being adopted. One by one she exposes the truths and
realities of closed adoption as it impacts adoptees." Anonymous
Shadow Train: A Journey Between Relinquishment &
Reunion
Trade Paperback, Patricia E. Taylor, September 1995
ISBN: 0965121704
Author: Taylor , Patricia E.
(Note: This title usually ships within 4-6 weeks, but must be
ordered from the publisher. From time to time publishers run out
of stock or declare titles out of print without providing
notice. Borders will contact you within 1-2 weeks if they have
trouble filling your order.)
Review: "A birthmother's story. Probably the best
book from a birthmother on the market. A journey between
relinquishment and reunion." Anonymous
Saying Goodbye to a Baby Vol. 1: The Birthparent's Guide
to Loss & Grief in Adoption, Vol. 1
Trade Paperback, Child Welfare League of America, Incorporated,
January 1989
ISBN: 0878683879
Author: Roles, Patricia E.
(Note: This title usually ships within 1-6 weeks but must be
ordered from the publisher. From time to time publishers run out
of stock or declare titles out of print without providing
notice.)
Review: "Society does not recognize the right and
the need of birthparents to grieve. Professionals in the field
of adoption have begun to realize and acknowledge that a grief
process occurs following relinquishment of an infant." Anonymous
Confessions of a Lost Mother: By ElisaMB@aol.com
Trade Paperback, 157 Pages, Barton, Elisa M., April 1996
ISBN: 0965079503
Author: Barton, Elisa M.
(Note: This title usually ships within 4-6 weeks but must be
ordered from the publisher. From time to time publishers run out
of stock or declare titles out of print without providing
notice. Borders will contact you within 1-2 weeks if they have
trouble filling your order.)
Review: "Stories from birthmothers compiled, with
permission, from various Internet sources." Anonymous
Second Choice: Growing Up Adopted
Trade Paperback, 176 Pages, Badger Hill Press, February 1993
ISBN: 0963264842
Author: Anderson, Robert, M.D.
Review: "An unusual perspective from a
black-market male adoptee/psychiatrist telling it from both
sides." Anonymous
Out of the Shadows: Birthfathers' Stories
Trade Paperback, 270 Pages, Howard, O. J. Publishing, July 1995
ISBN: 0964625911
Author: Mason, Mary M.; Photographer: Silberberg,
Amy
(Note: This title usually ships in 1-6 weeks, but must be
ordered from the publisher. From time to time, publishers run
out of stock or declare titles out of print without notice.)
Review: "In adoption, most of the time you hear and
read stories about the birth mother, adoptee and the adoptive
parents. This book is a collection of true stories about
birthfathers. 'Men who become fathers but who may never get to
hear their children call them Daddy.' It's a must read by every
member of the Triad." Penny M., TxCARE Member
A Man & His Mother Set: One Man's Search for his
Biological Mother & an Understanding of His Adoptive Mother
Audio Cassette, 180 minutes, HarperAudio, October 1997
ISBN: 0694518867
Author: Green, Tim; Read by: Green, Tim
Review: "This book is written by Tim Green who is a
former football player for the Atlanta Falcons, he is now a
lawyer and a sports commentator for Fox Televison. It is a story
of his search for his birth-mother and their Reunion. From
reading A Man and His Mother An Adopted Son's Search I
gained insight into what is going thru a male-adoptees mind
concerning search and reunion. Also, I came to and understanding
that adoptees have a driving need to be successful in everything
they do. I recommend this book to all birth-mothers who have
birth-sons." Anonymous
Blossoms in the Dust
1 VHS, 114 minutes, MGM Home Entertainment, Closed Captioned,
Color, September 1990, Not Rated
Director: LeRoy, Mervyn
Star: Garson, Greer / Pidgeon, Walter / Bressart, Felix /
Hunt, Marsha / Holden, Fay / Hinds, Samuel S.
Producer: Asher, Irving
Review: "The story of Edna Gladney -- highlighting
the fact that her purpose was protection of the triad from the
rest of the world, not from each other." Anonymous
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