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Adoption Nation: How the Adoption Revolution Is Transforming America
Hardcover, 288 Pages, Basic Books, November 2000
ISBN: 0465056504
Author: Pertman, Adam
Reviews: "Outstanding! This exciting, innovative book is a must read for adoptive parents, for everyone considering adopting, and for the millions of Americans-including professionals-who touch the lives of adoptive families. Adoption Nation is a remarkable book that I would like to put in the hands of everyone in the nation." Jane Nast, President, American Adoption Congress
"After 27 years as a social worker involved in child placement I can firmly say that Adoption Nation is a book whose time has come, finally! This past year has seen major advances toward a more dignified adoption practice in the US. The rights of adult adoptees being slowly but increasingly written into law and acknowledged in the media. Adoption Nation helps to explain this process. It documents very well the painful history of adoption practice in the US. It is well written and for me was very exciting reading. This story had to be told! This book is must reading for anyone involved in the adoption process, birth parents, adoptive parents, and the adoptees they love. Anyone with adoption triad members involved in their lives should read this book. It will help them understand the basic human issues of adoption that this book addresses in very tasteful stories throughout. This book should be REQUIRED reading for social workers and anyone else who is planning to work in child placement. It should be read BEFORE any damage is done with a poorly planned adoption. Finally, this book must be read by our legislators. If they read and understand it then all the adoption laws in the US will be changed within the year to return the fundamental right to a birth hertiage to all adult adoptees, a right which was removed slowly, state by state, over the past 50 years. With this book the reversal of that process will continue to gather speed! Thank you Adam Pertman! I hope to meet you someday and thank you in person." Bill Betzen, TxCARE Board Member

Lost & Found: The Adoption Experience
Trade Paperback, 320 Pages, Child Welfare League of America, Incorporated, January 1988
ISBN: 0060971320
Author: Lifton, Betty J.
Review: "Good on experience of being adopted." Anonymous
"The adoption experience from an adoptees viewpoint. An adoption classic." Anonymous
The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child
Trade Paperback, 252 Pages, Verrier Publishing, April 1993
ISBN: 0963648004
Author: Verrier, Nancy N.
Reviews: "Eye opening revelations of how a separation at birth impacts adoptees lifelong." Anonymous
"Great insight into the psychological trauma that we as adoptees can face from birth, relinquishment, and throughout our lives." Karen J., TxCARE Member
The Other Mother: A Woman's Love for the Child She Gave up for Adoption
Trade Paperback, 296 Pages, Soho Press, Incorporated, September 1992
ISBN: 0939149753
Author: Schaefer, Carol
Review: "Good example of 60's society attitudes towards birth mothers and adoption." Anonymous
"A must read!" Gwinetta C., TxCARE Member Adoption Reunions: A Book for Adoptees, Birthparents & Adoptive Families
Trade Paperback, 175 Pages, Second Story Press, April 1993
ISBN: 0929005414
Author: McColm, Michelle
(Note: This title usually ships in 1-6 weeks, but must be ordered from the publisher. From time to time, publishers run out of stock or declare titles out of print without notice.)

Review: "Written by an adoptee, to address the many issues of reunions. This book strives to provide insight and assistance to adoptees, adoptive parents, birth parents and the professionals who work with them. Practical suggestions for coping with each stage of reunion are included." Zoe F., TxCARE Member Sacred Connections: Stories of Adoption
Hardcover, 128 Pages, Running Press Book Publishers, February 2001
ISBN: 0762408014
Author: Koenig, Mary Ann, Berg, Niki (Photographer)
Review: "Truly helps the reader/viewer realize the sacredness of the connections we all have." Anonymous
Family Matters: Secrecy & Disclosure in the History of Adoption
Hardcover, 288 Pages, Harvard University Press, April 1998
ISBN: 0674796683
Author: Carp, E. Wayne
Review: "The history behind secrecy and nondisclosure in adoption." Karen J., TxCARE Member Birth Bond: Reunions Between Birthparents & Adoptees, What Happens After. . .
Trade Paperback, 285 Pages, New Horizon Press Publishers, Incorporated, April 1991
ISBN: 0882820729
Author: Gediman, Judith S. / Brown, Linda P.; Editor: Dunphy, Joan S.
Review: "Explores the long term outcomes of reunions." - Anonymous
"Interviews with 30 birthmothers who were engaged in post-reunion situations, interviews with professionals in adoption with reunion expertise." Zoe F., TxCARE Member
Birthright: The Guide to Search & Reunion for Adoptees, Birthparents, & Adoptive Parents
Trade Paperback, 288 Pages, Viking Penguin, June 1994
ISBN: 0140512950
Author: Strauss, Jean A.
Review: "A useful book for adoptees and their loved ones who are coming to terms with the emotions of search. Focuses on many issues of search and reunion. Seventy contributors." Zoe F., TxCARE Member

The Adoption Triangle: Sealed or Opened Records: How They Affect Adoptees, Birthparents & Adoptive Parents
Trade Paperback, 236 Pages, Edition Number 02, Corona Publishing Company, December 1989
ISBN: 0931722594
Author: Baran, Annette / Sorosky, Arthur D. / Pannor, Reuben
Review: "A great book!" Gwinetta C., TxCARE Member
"Learn about all sides of the adoption triangle. Based on 1,000 interviews." Anonymous


Search: A Handbook for Adoptees & Birthparents
Trade Paperback, 352 Pages, Edition Number 03, Oryx Press, July 1998
ISBN: 1573561150
Author: Askin, Jayne
Review: "Updated classic adoption search book." Anonymous
The Journey of the Adopted Self: A Quest for Wholeness
Trade Paperback, 336 Pages, Basic Books, May 1995
ISBN: 0465036759
Author: Lifton, Betty J.
Review: "Addresses the myths, the fantasies and the skewed perceptions society & many adoptive parents have about being adopted. One by one she exposes the truths and realities of closed adoption as it impacts adoptees." Anonymous
Shadow Train: A Journey Between Relinquishment & Reunion
Trade Paperback, Patricia E. Taylor, September 1995
ISBN: 0965121704
Author: Taylor , Patricia E.
(Note: This title usually ships within 4-6 weeks, but must be ordered from the publisher. From time to time publishers run out of stock or declare titles out of print without providing notice. Borders will contact you within 1-2 weeks if they have trouble filling your order.)

Review: "A birthmother's story. Probably the best book from a birthmother on the market. A journey between relinquishment and reunion." Anonymous
Saying Goodbye to a Baby Vol. 1: The Birthparent's Guide to Loss & Grief in Adoption, Vol. 1
Trade Paperback, Child Welfare League of America, Incorporated, January 1989
ISBN: 0878683879
Author: Roles, Patricia E.
(Note: This title usually ships within 1-6 weeks but must be ordered from the publisher. From time to time publishers run out of stock or declare titles out of print without providing notice.)

Review: "Society does not recognize the right and the need of birthparents to grieve. Professionals in the field of adoption have begun to realize and acknowledge that a grief process occurs following relinquishment of an infant." Anonymous
Confessions of a Lost Mother: By ElisaMB@aol.com
Trade Paperback, 157 Pages, Barton, Elisa M., April 1996
ISBN: 0965079503
Author: Barton, Elisa M.
(Note: This title usually ships within 4-6 weeks but must be ordered from the publisher. From time to time publishers run out of stock or declare titles out of print without providing notice. Borders will contact you within 1-2 weeks if they have trouble filling your order.)

Review: "Stories from birthmothers compiled, with permission, from various Internet sources." Anonymous
Second Choice: Growing Up Adopted
Trade Paperback, 176 Pages, Badger Hill Press, February 1993
ISBN: 0963264842
Author: Anderson, Robert, M.D.
Review: "An unusual perspective from a black-market male adoptee/psychiatrist telling it from both sides." Anonymous

Out of the Shadows: Birthfathers' Stories
Trade Paperback, 270 Pages, Howard, O. J. Publishing, July 1995
ISBN: 0964625911
Author: Mason, Mary M.; Photographer: Silberberg, Amy
(Note: This title usually ships in 1-6 weeks, but must be ordered from the publisher. From time to time, publishers run out of stock or declare titles out of print without notice.)

Review: "In adoption, most of the time you hear and read stories about the birth mother, adoptee and the adoptive parents. This book is a collection of true stories about birthfathers. 'Men who become fathers but who may never get to hear their children call them Daddy.' It's a must read by every member of the Triad." Penny M., TxCARE Member

A Man & His Mother Set: One Man's Search for his Biological Mother & an Understanding of His Adoptive Mother
Audio Cassette, 180 minutes, HarperAudio, October 1997
ISBN: 0694518867
Author: Green, Tim; Read by: Green, Tim

Review: "This book is written by Tim Green who is a former football player for the Atlanta Falcons, he is now a lawyer and a sports commentator for Fox Televison. It is a story of his search for his birth-mother and their Reunion. From reading A Man and His Mother An Adopted Son's Search I gained insight into what is going thru a male-adoptees mind concerning search and reunion. Also, I came to and understanding that adoptees have a driving need to be successful in everything they do. I recommend this book to all birth-mothers who have birth-sons." Anonymous
Blossoms in the Dust
1 VHS, 114 minutes, MGM Home Entertainment, Closed Captioned, Color, September 1990, Not Rated
Director: LeRoy, Mervyn
Star: Garson, Greer / Pidgeon, Walter / Bressart, Felix / Hunt, Marsha / Holden, Fay / Hinds, Samuel S.
Producer: Asher, Irving

Review: "The story of Edna Gladney -- highlighting the fact that her purpose was protection of the triad from the rest of the world, not from each other." Anonymous

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